10 Book Recommendations to Support you through a Divorce
Updated: Jun 1
Books can be a great resource for finding comfort, gaining perspective, and learning how to live through and move forward from a divorce. Here are ten book recommendations for people going through divorce:
1. "The Wisdom of No Escape and the Path of Loving-Kindness" by Pema Chödrön - This book offers practical advice on how to stay present and open-hearted in the face of difficult emotions.
2. "The Grief Recovery Handbook" by John W. James and Russell Friedman - This book is a step-by-step guide to moving through the grieving process after a loss, including the end of a relationship.
3. "Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha" by Tara Brach - This book teaches the practice of radical acceptance as a way to find peace and healing.
4. "Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself" by Melody Beattie - This classic book helps readers identify and change codependent patterns in their relationships.
5. "The Healing Power of Emotion: Affective Neuroscience, Development & Clinical Practice" by Diana Fosha - This book is a bit more academic, but it offers a deep understanding of the role of emotion in the healing process.
6. "Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Ever After" by Katherine Woodward Thomas - This book provides a holistic approach to healing after a breakup or divorce, steering you away from a bitter end and toward a new life that’s empowered and flourishing.
7. "The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man's World" by Alan Downs - While this book is specifically geared towards gay men, its insights on shame and resilience are applicable to anyone navigating a difficult breakup or divorce.
8. "All About Love" by Bell Hooks - This book provides a new path to love that is sacred, redemptive, and healing, and is especially geared toward women who are leaving toxic relationships.
9. “Mom’s House Dad’s House: Making two Homes for your Child” by Dr. Isolina Richards - This classic book includes examples, self-tests, checklists, tools, and guidelines to help separated moms and dads with the legal, emotional, and financial issues they will encounter as they work to create happy and stable homes for their children.
10. “Between Two Homes: a Co-parenting Handbook by Bradley Craig – This book teaches parents to remain or become coparents (instead of opponents) after a divorce and how to help your child grow and thrive while living between two homes.
These are just a few suggestions. What's most important is finding what resonates with you and supports you on your healing journey.
Have you read a book that helped you along your healing journey in a time of difficult family transition? Please share in the comment below.