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Cindy Wysocki

Advanced Planning for Divorce During Incapacity 

Updated: Aug 1



Elderly woman represented by Wysocki Law, PLLC in her collaborative divorce

Dealing with divorce during incapacity is a situation many might not consider until it happens. However, it is more common than you might think, especially in later-in-life marriages. Whether incapacity is anticipated, such as with a degenerative disease like Parkinson’s, or unexpected due to illness, injury, or mental health issues, it significantly complicates the already complex process of divorce. Fortunately, advanced planning can simplify this process for your loved ones who may need to make decisions on your behalf. 


Understanding Incapacity 


In legal terms, being incapacitated means being unable to make decisions for yourself due to mental or physical impairment. This condition can be temporary or permanent. During such times, a legal guardian, litigation guardian ad litem, or power of attorney (POA) may be appointed to make decisions for you. Whether a guardianship proceeding is needed during divorce depends partly on whether you have powers of attorney in place, allowing someone you trust to make decisions for you. Without proper estate planning, guardianship may be necessary while a divorce is pending, and a litigation guardian ad litem may become essential. 


How Advanced Planning Can Help 


1. Appoint a Power of Attorney: By appointing a legal guardian or granting power of attorney in advance, you ensure that someone you trust will make decisions on your behalf, navigating the legal complexities of divorce for you. 


II. Execute Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreements: Documents like prenuptial or postnuptial agreements can provide clear guidance and prevent disputes, making the job of those making decisions on your behalf considerably easier. Courts take extra precautions to protect the rights of incapacitated individuals, and advanced planning can simplify court approval processes. Properly executed, predefined agreements and plans can be reviewed and more easily approved. 


III. Make Advance Financial Plans: Incapacity often brings additional financial burdens, such as medical expenses and the need for long-term care. Advanced financial planning, including setting up trusts and obtaining appropriate insurance (including long-term care insurance, if available), ensures you are adequately provided for and can simplify asset division. 


Conclusion 


While the prospect of dealing with a divorce during incapacity is daunting, advanced planning can make the process significantly easier for everyone involved. By preparing for potential incapacity, you can protect your interests, ensure your wishes are respected, and provide for your well-being, while easing the burden on those managing your affairs. Taking proactive steps now can help you and your loved ones navigate this difficult chapter more smoothly and provide peace of mind. 


If you have questions about planning for such scenarios or need assistance with estate planning or collaborative family law matters, please contact our experienced team. We are here to help you navigate these complexities with care and expertise. 





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